Books - a few favorites
Atul Gawande MD - Being Mortal
Paul Kaulinthi MD - Where Breath Becomes Air
Five Invitations - Frank Ostaseski
Elizabeth Kubler Ross MD - pioneer on the study of death.
Movies
Into the night - 9 stories with different perspectives on dying.
Philadelphia Story - Tom Hanks, in the earlier days of AIDS, faces death directly, and chooses to have a going away party. In today's world of End of Life Choices its particularly relevant.
Love Story - About saying goodbye from within love
The Meaning of Live - Monty Python, a humorous look at life, and death. Humor!! great tool.
More RESOURCES
You are going to die (YGTD)